Be a great chat partner: Tip #1

Hey gooners! I've been on here a while (one year with this account but more like four years total) and I'd like to talk about something that comes up occasionally: etiquette.

I'm fully aware that the people who need to read this most probably never will, but I'll try anyway.

Tip #1: Don't assume kinks or impose your kinks on someone without asking/being invited to.

It's great if you like calling someone mommy or daddy, or sharing extreme fantasies, or whatever else. But be a human being about it and make sure the other person actually wants to hear that. Imposing your kinks on someone else who didn't ask for them is really poor behavior.

Say it with me now: Consent is hot.

(And so is con-non-con! But fucking ask first lol)

At the very least, I hope some people reading this who have been the recipients of such crappy behavior can recognize it for what it is and not feel guilty for shutting it down or blocking people for it.

Let's set expectations for how to treat each other! (And then get back to rubbing our swollen fuck parts 😵‍💫🥰💗)