Follow up after talking to him
I wrote a post days ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/loveafterporn/s/zASClvvSUs
I talked to him today, he listened to it all and said that I am right and that he questioned being an addict before. He also admitted that it had affected us and that things changed between us
He said that he will not be able to focus on this fully until he gets something really important at work done. And that in all case he will be very busy with work.
He will think about it and see what he can do. He asked me for light-read material on this
I told him we are postponing the wedding at least another year. And that I cant get in bed with him because of how I feel and what he does.
He also told me that he deleted his reddit accounts recently because he felt he was spending a lot of time on it with porn content
I am not sure if he is sinecure about this or if he is jusy acting like he is accepting the talk to calm me down
I told him I will not have porn in my relationship or any weird accounts on instagram or any of this this in not what I want for my life
I am even more lost now. I am not sure what to do next. How to know how this will move forward.
What do you think?
Posted Dec 29, 2025, 7:54 PM UTC