41 [M4F] - do you enjoy sexual “self-improvement” projects? Can’t resist a challenge? Let’s be sexy times gym buddies

Just in time for January, time to set some goals for ourselves!

A thing I realized about myself during pandemic is that I can’t resist a sexual self-improvement challenge. Is that a thing? Who knows. It is now. By this I mean learning new skills, techniques, abilities, unlocking new mental modes, or just accepting (and hopefully besting) challenges.

The best example of this, for me, was that I got tired of being the “one and done” sort, and so I invested the time, sweat equity, and endured the hardship of teaching myself how to not lose interest after orgasm, and how to successfully go for round two or three, after a short break. That, of course, has led me to want to be able to go truly back to back with no gaps - a challenge I have yet to master.

I’ve also discovered that I am not alone in this sort of silly mindset, and that there are others out there who enjoy having challenges set by others, who then do their best to hold them accountable. Sure, this could easily lend itself to a d/s dynamic, but I really don’t think it needs to. Maybe a fair amount of switchiness is beneficial, but that’s just another hypothesis to test out, isn’t it?

What I’m after is the masturbatory equivalent of a gym buddy. Someone to help motivate you, set goals with, compete against (in a friendly way), and hopefully experience success with.

In my mind, this takes the form of a sort of free-form brainstorming, paired with an ongoing dialogue. You bring your ideas, I’ll bring mine, and we’ll see where we end up. I’m very open-minded and I enjoy finding the silliness in things like this, but I do take achieving my goals seriously.

If you’ve got a sexual to-do list and you’re not making any progress on it (or you just find the idea of one funny and want help populating yours), come say hi!