Would you give this guy a chance?

Met on an app. He had his profile marked as monogamous and long term relationship. Was super silly but eventually got to deeper conversations. Good job, attractive, emotionally intelligent. Told me he deleted the apps and started calling me babe. But also told me he wants to take it slow.

Had ex wife stay a week at his house over Christmas, “for the kids.” Couldn’t text me too much because she “got jealous”. Turns out he used to be in an open relationship in his marriage but is open to monogamy now?

Finally meet and the date goes super well, it comes out that even though he deleted the apps and has been calling me babe, he is dating like 4 other people. Which is expected I guess, but he acted so into me so I wasn’t expecting that…

I’m just a lover girl who is super monogamous and I have been single for a long time. I feel like even though our personalities could be a good match, our lifestyles and goals seem to be different? He seems.. messy with lots of things going on…

He said I’m “super hot and he likes my energy” after the date, but I don’t really feel like that’s a compliment. I just don’t know if I should even keep seeing him or just let it drift away. I hardly ever find people I like though, so that’s kinda hard, and I did really like him. Apparently everyone does though. lol