I(29F) feel horrible on my bday with my bf

I didn’t know that I had to share space with my bf along with his brother and his gf. His brother is semi decent, but his gf is such attention seeking person. She doesn’t talk to me at all. She ignores me directly when I ask her anything or talk to her. She made me collage of pics on my bday, and that’s the only thing everyone has been talking about on my bday, even my bf ( who did nothing for me btw for my bday and was totally dependent on his brother and his gf).

The worst part here is that I talked to my bf just 2 days back about how uncomfortable I feel around his family and my bf was apologetic and told me he will set boundaries. Oh, and this is not the first time I’ve talked to him about this in our 1 year of relationship. I feel they used my bday to bond better, which is ok. But forgot to include me in it. And that hurts. I didn’t think it’s gonna be that bad.

PS: I took my bf on a trip to Europe on his bday because that was his dream.

When he asked me a couple of days back about what I want, I told him I want a separate house for us. And guess what I got? Nothing <3

Love is beautiful.