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36 [M4F] #Europe #Mediterranean. Introvert for Introvert

I’m not a big reddit or social media user, but I’ve formed connections with some lovely and interesting people here in the past- I know you’re all out there, even if it is a shifty platform to meet someone on.

 

I recently moved countries, and I’m just looking to meet and get to know people- online or otherwise. I don’t really have an agenda other than building a connection and getting to appreciate someone for who they are. Meeting a potential romantic partner would be a wonderful thing, but it’s not an expectation I hold.

 

About me:

·   Big literature and philosophy nerd. Would love to talk books! Currently obsessed with Circe by Madelline Miller.

·   Work in mental health. Generally an empathic person and love hearing about people’s stories.

·   Family-oriented even if that can be difficult at times.

·   I’ve lived in a couple of different countries, I quite value diverse perspectives.

·   I love all things that have to do with existential perspectives, mental health, and just what it means to be alive in this wonderfully absurd world! Recently been into watching shows that cover such topics like Bojack Horseman, Long Story Short, Undone.

·   Other hobbies include working out, going to see a nice musical / theatre production, being out in nature.

·  I can be quite naïve in that I take people at face value and just more or less believe them. I know this can be a pitfall, but I maintain it by choice. Give trust- get trust!

·  Romantic of sorts- why else would I be sending a message in a bottle on reddit?

·  Cats

 

About you:

·  Between the ages of 26-46.

·  I’m looking for someone who is self-aware, introspective, and strives to be vulnerable. I realise that these are vague and generic, but I value those traits as the absolute baseline. I promise to offer the same in return. Everything else we can figure out as we go; we either click or we don’t.

 

That’s it. I don’t really have any requirements other than please be yourself. I’m not a very judgemental person and I enjoy talking about all the things that make us different!

 

Hope to hear from you.

Posted Dec 29, 2025, 8:01 PM UTC · locked

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