49 [M4F] #UK Dominant sadist seeking committed submissive

About me:

I’m a professional, experienced Dominant in my forties. I’m calm, steady, and nurturing outside the scene, and confident, focused, and precise when we’re playing. My sadism is intentional and negotiated. I like intensity that feels meaningful and safe, with plenty of communication and aftercare built in.

Outside kink, I’m happily nerdy. I game on PC, get lost in fantasy books and TV, and I love days out that make life feel a bit bigger: museums, history, live music, and anything that scratches the “learn something new” itch.

Our situation:

I’m in an established D/s relationship with a submissive partner who knows I’m looking and supports it. This isn’t a side arrangement. I’m looking for someone who wants to be an equal part of a throuple where everyone is honest, seen, and respected.

Kinks & style:

I enjoy impact, restraint, ritual, protocol, service dynamics, sensation play, edging, and rules that actually matter. I prefer dynamics that grow over time as trust builds. Limits are talked through clearly and always respected, and aftercare is simply part of how I do things.

Who I’m looking for:

Submissive only. Not a switch. You enjoy structure, respond well to firm guidance, and value maturity and emotional intelligence. You’re open to a throuple and want to be a genuine partner in it. I do enjoy age gaps with consenting adults, and bisexual is a plus, since chemistry between all of us matters.

Verification & seriousness:

I’ve dealt with catfishing and ghosting before, so I prefer to verify fairly early once we’ve chatted a bit. I’m looking for someone sincere, consistent, and genuinely interested in building something real.

Practical:

UK-based, stable, low drama. If you message, tell me your age, general location, experience level, what draws you to a throuple, and one non-negotiable limit.