Dating

Who is with their second love?? I have this girl I’m really into and she’s into me, we were talking about dating and did for 2 months but she decided to end it and focus on herself so she could heal. I understand that because I’ll admit we did push for it to quickly because she got out of a 5 year relationship recently and hasn’t fully processed it. There’s a lot of talk about the second loved never works out in the end and I am the second guy she’s ever been with and just curious if this is something I should push for or let go?