Don’t know where else to post

New guy I’ve been seeing who is also an Aries (28 also) plays video games in his free time & has Kratom . This bothers me because it screams lazy, juvenile, etc. he does plan on going to paramedic school in 2027, however I’m curious what you think … dating for a month. Are these hobbies you’d expect your future husband to do lol I’m at a loss and it’s hard to accept.