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tin8374

Is saying "I am uncomfortable telling you my dating/sexual history" a good idea for an inexperienced guy like me?

I am inexperience at dating at 25 and I am a virgin

I personally would not care about my hypothetical partner's sexual experience. All I care is if we are compatible in the moment and if she is STD free so I would not even ask this. I think its a bullshit question.

Common advice is to say "I am not comfortable talking about this" if this question comes up. But wouldn't most women be turned off by this? I feel its an invasive question however, I wouldn't mind being honest here.

What do you think?

Posted Dec 30, 2025, 9:04 PM UTC

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