Grand Galloping Gala reasons annoy me

So I’m rewatching the show cause I finally convinced my brother to watch it. I haven’t seen it in a while so I’ve forgotten a few things and we’re on the ticket master episode right now and yeesh I don’t like this one a whole lot. Everyone is guilt tripping Twilight and most of their reasons don’t make much sense…Fluttershy doesn’t even want to go to the gala and just wants to see the garden

Rainbow wants to meet/join the wonderbolts and the Gala is NOT the kind of event for that ponies train for that and she just wants a free ticket in

Rarity wants to find romance and show off her fashion which the fashion I understand but the gala isn’t the time to find romance

Apple Jack wants to sell her food but this is a catered event??? I understand her motives and she just wants money to support her family but the gala is NOT the place come on

Pinkie Pie wants to party but this is a very formal event and I wish someone would’ve mentioned that to her but she’s making up for it by pressuring Twilight a billion percent more

But out of all their reasons most of them are selfish/don’t even matter for the gala (other than Pinkie Pie) l watched this show growing up but yeesh rewatching this episode it doesn’t paint most of the ponies in a very good light.