I suck at texting/escalating

I get plenty of matches on tinder and hinge etc and I’ve been on a few dates. However when it comes to texting girls I am very unskilled you could say. And on dates I don’t think I’m very good at setting a romantic/sexual interest standard and it feels like two friends talking.

Even if they convo over text is going really well they always seem to flake or ghost eventually and the few dates I’ve managed to get haven’t led to anything at all.

Just want to improve my game a little haha get a bit smoother lol. Any help is appreciated.

Thanks.