Possible to wear hair down all the time (curly/wavy)?

I have wavy hair (I think 2c) and it’s currently brastrap length. I’m trying to grow it out (probably to classic) and all the tips are saying I should have it in protective styles during the day. I sleep with it up, but the problem is I hate the way I look with my hair up - I really hate it! I always have done.

Has anyone had success having long hair that’s wavy/curly and wearing it loose most of the day? Are there any particular tips I should know if I want to leave it loose?

I have tried all sorts of hairstyles and I just really dislike the way I look in them. I have done a lot of work on my self esteem over the past few years but this is a sticking point that I don’t think I’ll get over lmao, I just do not feel good with my hair up. So please don’t recommend styles or say I should feel good with my hair up because I don’t think it’s happening, I’m afraid.

Just looking for any success stories with always having loose hair, and tips to prevent my hair getting tangly and suffering mechanical damage.

Thank you 🙏