37 [M4F] #VancouverCanada
- Single Kinky man looking for Younger or Older woman to vibe with
Honestly when I was younger I liked older women, now that I'm older.. I still like older but I also like younger, I like both;
I like differences in our age/backgrounds/styles/interests and like range of looks/personalities overall; I'm looking both directions as I equally enjoy the company of older and younger women. I'd say early-20s & late-40s is easily in my range but I don't usually list off a bunch of metrics; It's about attraction & chemistry and I tend to enjoy added dimensions in dynamics that arise from agegaps, contrasts, differences. I've equally liked a range of attributes including complete opposites, I'd say preferences have been an individual thing plus the most important is if there's mutual attraction+vibe.
Overview
I'm seeking a good connection, not necessarily looking for anything serious, but also not into random hookups either. I want something casual, light, physical, with a good fun vibe; preferably compatibilty/chemistry to meet for longer-run.
I'm a Brown man, 37, 6', attractive, clean, well groomed, shaved head, sometimes bearded, tattooed, currently with a dad bod. I have a partial sfw pic under my profile if you're interested. I'm single, straight, living alone/can host in the Burnaby/Brentwood area. I value my independence, not chasing a relationship though am open if/when it's right.
I'm busy, private, mature, and have enough on my plate, and am seeking consistent good fun kinky sex, often and a lot, with someone I click well with.. and have a connection. If you're interested, looking, and serious about meeting IRL, then introduce yourself with some information to start.
I'm naturally pretty kinky, moreover a Daddy-Dom type, I tend to click best with kinky Submissive-leaning types in bed. But everyone's got kinks, it's about energy; I like an experienced woman, I'm into a lot but balanced, and have a high libido.
more.. Kink Dynamic, Energy, my Match
I click with range of kinkier women, mostly sub-types into a rougher primal D/s connection who know what they want.. as long as we mesh and the play is right, the exact title of roles doesn't mean much to me, it's about real connection for something good not playacting or scripting a scenario so I'll say it, I've enjoyed many other 'types' who were only slightly submissive yet other characteristics were stronger because ultimately it's about how two people fit together.. plus I'm not looking to be anyone's master controlling her or looking to own a sub, I'm busy, I just want a fun dynamic
Hard limits: all the unhygienic ones -blood, scat, piss, etc., included eating ass which is off putting giving or receiving; super regressive age, especially very 'little' Dd/lg, cg/l; abdl; extreme cnc, as in way too real.. None of these are for me.. for me at best, 'middle' is ok and 'cnc' if derived from bratty; I've never found regressed ageplay & non-consent play hot; I'd say bratty leading cnc and non-ageplay cg/l or dd/lg etc can have different energies for play so non-issue, but they are ancillary to my kinks, not sought out.. ok within reason.
Overall, Seeking someone I like and enjoy as a person & sexually.. moreover sexually for sure but still need to click as people. I'm looking for a woman who sees a lot of overlaps in what I like and much of my perspective resonates with, who is on a similar wavelength... it can't just be solely kink based, in person chemistry and social chemistry is necessary for this to last... I'm seeking a woman for consistency, to see regularly for fun longer term... I'm greedy, I prefer to keep it all ongoing in life for as long as it works for us because always searching sucks..
If like me, you are looking for a stable worthwhile someone and willing to put in some effort/be authentic, then let's talk
Posted Dec 30, 2025, 9:10 PM UTC · locked