My (30F) boyfriend (32M) is being ungrateful and I’m considering ending it with him..

My boyfriend of 4 years is being extremely ungrateful. I’m the breadwinner so I usually help with paying when we go out and I also help with some of his bills since his on unemployment right now.. again I usually pay for everything half of the time.. my family has a thing we do every year where we put in money every week and who’s turn it lands on gets the money. He hasn’t paid for the last 3 weeks since he hasn’t gotten paid so I been helping him. He only paid 2 times. I asked him if he can give me some of his money when he receives it cause obviously I help him and he said “I’m just going to give you what you paid” .. I said but I helped you more than that so that’s a little ungrateful.. then he starts going off on me and says “fuck you idc is my money .. you not getting shit”.. and just going off. I obviously got annoyed and I said you know what I’m going to keep the money and I’ll give you what you gave in which is the $200 and he was cursing me out and saying no his not and if he doesn’t get it he will cause a scene at my house with his family.. I’m just so over him and ungratefulness and I’m over this relationship. YShould I give him the money and move on? Or am I entitled to keep it ..

Posted Dec 30, 2025, 9:11 PM UTC

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