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Zoshi2200

I got a DM, I don't know how to proceed.

Help/Advice

Recently, I got a DM by a guy who wanted to get to know me.

However, I'm lowkey panicking because this is the first time someone messaged me with that intention. I have never been romantically involved with someone, so this is something huge for me.

His message was quite sweet, and he seems to be on his deen but I'm lowkey not that attracted to him. I can tell he is handsome but I'm not attracted to him. Also, he has the same name as my youngest cousin.

I'm also feeling conflicted because I recently went on a trip with some students, and I was insanely attracted to one Muslim guy, and he was so sweet to others and his sisters. I'm not sure if it's a crush but I'm interested in him. The thing is, I don't know if he is interested in me.

I really don't know if I should accept his request, and just try it or just wait. Can you all give me some advice please!

Posted Dec 30, 2025, 9:12 PM UTC

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