Just got canceled on again
I just needed to rant.
I (34M) have been best friends with “Brad” (35M) since high school. Brad had a baby two years ago.
I knew that we wouldn’t see each other as often as I was accustomed to. I have been extremely accommodating, making plans around their schedule and prioritizing hanging out whenever we can. I offer to come to them and have zero issues with hanging out with their kid (even when he is fussy)
This morning I got bailed on last minute for what feels like the 11th time. What makes it more annoying is that he is the one initiating these plans, and each time he bails on me. I had plans today that I rescheduled to see him as well
I asked my coworker with kids about his opinion on the situation and he basically said “you have to revolve everything around them, sorry”
I don’t really know where I’m going with this other than the fact that I’m really upset right now
Posted Jan 3, 2026, 7:49 PM UTC