(18F) AITA for not being sexually active enough with my soon to be boyfriend (18M)?

I have been in a situation ship with this guy for a few months now and we have slowly been falling in love. I am a virgin and he has 2 bodies, When we first started talking I told him about how I have conflicting feelings about sexual acts as I struggle with the influence of purity culture and I have had some back sexual experiences when I was a child. He told me this isn’t a huge deal breaker for him and he would be patient.

Fast forward to our relationship now, we still aren’t officially dating which was my fault because I originally said I wasn’t ready but I am now. We have done some sexual things (hj,bj,fingering,eating out) but just not very often. Those experiences weren’t perfect as he wasn’t being patient with me and made me feel a bit objectified.

Recently, we have been fighting more often and last night we got into an argument about what I was ready for sexually and he crashed out a bit. He told me when he asks me to be his girlfriend, if I say yes I have to be more sexually active with him. I got uncomfortable and it spiraled. He says I have made him uncomfortable and have ruined the idea of us being together intimately.

I tried to explain to him that we would get there eventually, but he wouldn’t listen. He says he’s going to stay with me because he loves me but it’s so confusing because he seems angry as well.

AITA for staying with him knowing he’s not getting what he wants? Should I just give in and try it with him?