Very anxious

I am on Junel Fe 1/20 extended so I take 3 pill packs (63 pills) continuously before a 7 day placebo week.

On Christmas Eve, around the 2nd week in my 2nd pack, I took my pill at like 11pm instead of my usual time of 10:30am. Some days I take my pill later than 10:30am but always take my pill within 24 hours.

On December 27th, my bf and I had sex without a condom but he pulled out. This is legit the first time we’ve had sex without a condom and pulled out. We always use a condom otherwise.

Today, on my 40th pill day, I have had some light spotting but a couple instances of slight cramps. I will note however, that this has happened before a lot. I find that sometimes in my 2nd continuous pill pack I experience some spotting that usually goes away.

Basically, I’m trying to be rational here but I am freaking out that I’m somehow pregnant and that by taking my pill late it caused me to ovulate and that by not using a condom, I got pregnant despite pull out.

Can anyone give me some clarity please. I am a very anxious person going through a rough time (grieving my mom) and could use any advice please.