29 [F4F] #Oregon - looking for a fem domme, 25-39, LTR, irl

Hi! Happy 2026! Probably read something like this before but I’m kinda new the bdsm in general but I’ve been doing my research! Also have been trying to hit the club scene but so far it’s been…difficult.

I’m looking for someone who’s willing to be open minded, patient, takes care of themselves and maybe might develop into something more longterm. Also who’s willing to help train and play with a sub who wants to serve and learn.

I’m a pretty big nerd in general, I’m in grad school, love going to the gym, self improvement in all things, I love writing, acting and fantasy. (Oh and my pfp is me just fyi)

Also, this stuff requires a lot of work, planning, trust, preparation on both ends, so I’m more than happy to to chat, vet and develop a better sense of trust for both our sakes.

Anyway if you read all that and are still interested dm me and thanks for reading!