Dating and Social Media Red Flags

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I really want the perspective of a MALE who is genuine , loyal and has long term dating experience.

As I find social media can easily brainwash you into thinking everything a man does will result in cheating.

I noticed my (28f) boyfriends of 2 years (27m) “visit history” on Facebook has random attractive girls, from what I’ve gathered- it’s most likely from groups he’s in (non sexual- maybe gym content) and probably visits the profiles of women he finds attractive-

I will add he does also visit male profiles but it’s obvious why he’s visiting the females profiles.

Other social media accounts are normal, he doesn’t follow porn stars/ random girls- he’s not interacting with them (adding them/ liking their photos) and from what I can see - has no form of porn addiction.

I think because of social media I’m questioning if this is a red flag? I truly don’t do this or care when I see attractive people online so I can’t relate to it.

What do you guys think? Should I be worried? Married men- is this a red flag? I find myself to be secure but don’t want to ignore this behaviour if it’s a sign of a bigger issue……

Also before anyone comes for me about going in his phone- don’t waste your time loool I was born into the age of technology and if there is one thing I know- it’s privacy within phone usage = potential YEARS of wasted time by not catching cheating. I am not crazy going through his stuff all the time so it’s really not that big of a deal.

Posted Jan 7, 2026, 2:59 PM UTC

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