Do TradWives typically believe this or do they consider it inappropriate?
Hi everyone, I want to clarify that I’m asking this question genuinely and respectfully not to mock anyone. I’m trying to understand different perspectives, not pass judgment.
I came across an online discussion about TradWives where someone described being a TradWife mainly in terms of household duties and also performing sexual acts for her husband. I personally don’t agree with framing homemaking or TradWife roles in a demeaning way homemakers absolutely deserve respect but that isn’t the main point of my question.
In response to that comment someone else said that a “true TradWife” would never perform oral sex and that such acts would be considered wrong or inappropriate.
I’m unsure whether that second response was meant sarcastically or seriously. Do TradWives typically believe this? Is performing oral sex considered against traditional values or even unholy by some? I can imagine that certain religious women might feel this way but I’m not sure and wanted to hear directly from people here.
Posted Jan 7, 2026, 3:00 PM UTC