AIO or this is normal behavior for some men
Very early on, my boyfriend became extremely touchy in ways that made me uncomfortable. He did not seem to understand the concept of consent. He would rub himself against me and touch my intimate areas without my permission.
I clearly told him multiple times that I was uncomfortable and that his actions were not okay. Instead of respecting that, he argued that because we were in a relationship, he had the right to touch me however he wanted. That response deeply shocked and disturbed me.
The following day, he came over again. As I was leaving my room, he suddenly pulled me back inside and began pulling my leggings down. πππππI was furious and terrified. I screamed and told him I would call the police. He tried to downplay the situation, telling me to calm down and claiming he was βjust trying to love me.β That response made the situation even more disturbing.
While we were dating, he was very performative and tried hard to appear perfect, but eventually his true behavior came out.
After that incident, I told him to leave immediately or I would call the police. Once he left, I called the friends who had introduced us and asked them to come over. I told them everything, both what had happened previously and what occurred that day. I was angry, hurt, and disgusted, and I took out some of that anger on them because they had known him the longest and never saw this side of him.
Since then, he has apologized, but I have not met with him again and I have not responded to his messages.
Posted Jan 7, 2026, 3:01 PM UTC Β· locked