43 [m4f] Taking the plunge #online #nyc

I am married, normal life on the outside, kids, stable job, but right now I am looking for that person that can help me escape for a little bit each day and for a fun weekend. Anyone feel like they just need a little escape, or a break, or a diversion from the mundane now and then. Maybe you feel like life is suffocating, and you wish you had someone to tell something to. Maybe you want to feel seen, appreciated, complimented and touched for the first time possibly years. I mean is that really too much to ask for??

I am looking for someone clever, married, who wants to go where you usually don’t go when looking for these things: Let’s take the dive together. I love conspiracy theories and would love to hear anything crazy you believe. Come on, you gotta have something that you just know is true but you can’t tell anyone because they will think you are crazy. Tell me that and let’s see if you are as crazy as you think. Tell me the thing you’re not allowed to say out loud and I’ll match it and raise you. Maybe it isn’t a conspiracy, but a desire, a wish, a dream, a passion, or what you secretly hunger and thirst for. We can explore it all together.

I can write, I can listen, I can help you forget everything else exists, at least for a few moments a day and for a really fun weekend. We should stop living for tomorrow, because tomorrow is a myth, a fictional imaginary place that doesn’t really exist. In a quote from the movie “Knight and Day,” “Someday. That’s a dangerous word. It really is codeword for Never.”

I have brownish - greyish hair now. I have blue eyes. I workout daily, but not a perfect body (but trying). Attractiveness is important and I am looking for someone attractive and confidant. I am not into BBW or overweight or curvy or whatever term these kids are using these days, sorry ladies just not my type. Seriously, if I am going to step out then I have be to be attracted to you.

I have never really wanted to meet anyone in real life, but I think I am ready to take the leap. I am just missing, and frankly craving the physical intimacy and connection! I have a conference in NYC in two weeks and would love to meet a beautiful lady for a fun weekend. I would love to start this online to make this a comfortable transition to reality.

If you’re up for something like this, and it hits the spot, message me with the word “escape” and a one-sentence tease of what you want to get out of this today and possibly tomorrow or for a weekend. Or just say hey, I will probably respond with anything.

• Just so you know, I like puppies and kittens. If you hate cute, little snugly baby animals then we won’t get a long. Just throwing that out there in case you are wondering where I stand on baby animals. 🤪