Denial & Restrictions, how far do you go? Success, struggles, advice?

So denial is obviously a huge turn-on for many of us, but it can also be one of the riskiest parts of the lifestyle long-term.

I can't say it's what broke up my first cuckold relationship, but she brought it up in arguements so it did contribute.

That said, I have a new opportunity to engage in a cuckold relationship with a women who I've been somewhat intimate with, but have not had sex yet.

We have proposed that I be a cuck and she continue to fuck a few of her big cock FWBs (she has 3 or 4 she said).

I’m really interested in the real-life outcomes for those who might have engaged in something similar.

Some questions to spark discussion:

• How strict is denial in your relationship right now (pussy-free, orgasm control, nudity restrictions, etc.)?
• How long have you maintained it, and has it changed over time?
• What unexpected benefits have you found?
• Did it get more severe over time?
• What difficulties or downsides have shown up (emotional crashes, resentment, performance changes, etc.)?
• If you could give one piece of advice to someone considering deeper denial, what would it be?

Success stories are great, but honest warnings and “we had to dial it back” stories are just as valuable.

I'll answer the questions based on my last cuckold marriage:

• How strict is denial in your relationship right now (pussy-free, orgasm control, nudity restrictions, etc.) - Eventually i was limited to first base and once a week handjob where i had to finish them myself.
• How long have you maintained it, and has it changed over time? It started off with me being given PIV sex twice a year, then i got banned, then she didn't want me touching her sexually, then she started teasing me in sexy clothes and said no nudity for me.
• What unexpected benefits have you found? It drove me fucking insanely horny, like nothing ever, like drugs couldn't make me this horny I think.
• What difficulties or downsides have shown up (emotional crashes, resentment, performance changes, etc.)? Jealously and angst were HIGH, especially in times where say we were to carnival parties in the caribbean (we did this a lot, like several parties a year), and seeing men she never met get more access to her body than i was getting really drove me crazy.
• If you could give one piece of advice to someone considering deeper denial, what would it be? Be careful for what you wish for, the highs do come with a cost of increased angst and it will consume you so much at times, like 90% of your daily thoughts will be on this. I knows this now and yet i do want it back again in my life.