Is the HFF trio rare?

Hello, question! In six years of swinging, things have only gone our way twice. You'd think we'd have some advantages: we're a couple in our mid-twenties, both into bodybuilding, and we try to be as fun, polite, and elegant as possible. We take care of ourselves and are extremely patient and approachable. We really never stress out over nothing. But when I talked to another couple, they maintained that this wasn't uncommon. That single women were easy to find, and that in this scene, it was something everyone did.

Are we a turn-off for single women? Or is finding a single woman actually that difficult?

Please share your opinions and expertise!