Primary Care Physician recommendations! I’m desperate.

Hello, I am from the other side of the bay. I have been trying to get a decent PCP but no luck. I don’t care how far I need to drive. Everyone I try is either a religious nut job or trying to push “holistic healing” instead of actual evidence based practices. I had someone tell me that despite my genetic diseases, I will want to have kids and need to start planning (I am only 24!!). Another doctor told me that women can’t feel pain and over exaggerate. And lastly I had someone tell me that my extreme muscular pain is normal and that I just need to rub Himalayan salt on my legs and take ashwaganda!! They also said that my high cholesterol and ADHD is due to my diet even though I tried to tell him I pretty much only eat vegetables, fruits, and fish! Newsflash my high cholesterol is genetic!! Thanks for coming to my rant lol. I have blue cross blue shield. I would prefer someone who is not outwardly religious and uses evidence based practices rather than their personal opinions. Would love a liberal/progressive doctor but that might be asking for too much down here.