[M4F] - The desire to start a dom/sub marriage and family quickly…

I’ve become increasingly aware and cognizant of my extreme instincts and desires to start a family immediately. The more I look around and see how fragile things are, the feeling only grows more apparent.

Taking your time has unfortunately become an unknown amount of years for couples. People say don’t rush it, but don’t rush it now becomes 5 years, 7 years, etc. What are we doing? Why have we allowed mediocrity and laziness dictate the speed of things. If you’re not building and getting stronger you’re getting weaker. The mindset has to change for the better and most individuals these days feel they live forever with the fantasy of what social media lends to.

Taking our roles quickly in a relationship and moving towards a path of growth makes the most sense long term. Having structure and routine is important. It not only reinforces purpose but helps to give each day a momentum that feels good and centers you.

Being a dom in a marriage is important. There’s a sense of pride that can’t be explained easily. A provider that cares for his family and keeps his wife safe and secure is more important than you realize. Unfortunately many find out too late in a failed relationship.

Would love to discuss all the aspects of a dom/sub marriage and leaning into having a family quickly. Where does your mind take you? What fun, kinky rabbit hole can we get ourselves into with our discussions?

Me: 40/m, white, 6’1