I 22F gave my bf 23M a hypothetical scenario?

Ok this might be a bit of a silly argument but,

I sent my bf a post I saw on instagram where a perfect bouquet of flowers was lying on top of the bins, and asked him if hypothetically he saw that, would he get that for me. He said no, as he doesn’t want to touch anything from a bin. Valid.

Then I said, what if it was perfectly pristine, no bin juice. He said he wouldn’t still as he didn’t like the colour of the flowers. So I said, the flowers are for me! To which he replied, still no, don’t like the colour. I was a bit annoyed at this point cos why did the colour matter to him if they were for me. As a matter of fact, i really liked the colour of the flowers in the picture.

Anyways, I told him the sort of responses he could have given i.e “I don’t like that they’re from a bin or the colour, but I’d pick it up for you” sort of thing. To which he said, those are good responses but dont tell him what to say.

I apologised and said I hadn’t meant to script him and I just wanted to feel like he considered me in his response.

Anyways, he ignored that and went to bed so the next day I was mad and didn’t bother texting him. When we finally spoke, i told him I was upset over yesterday to which he said it was just a game. He said, You made up a hypothetical scenario and got upset when u didnt get the answer u wanted.

Well, now i’m re-considering our whole relationship.

Or am i over reacting over something minor.

I really can’t tell. Any outside perspective is good thanks

Posted Jan 8, 2026, 11:55 PM UTC

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