How should I handle this situation?

So I’ve been talking to a girl for almost 100 days, BUT… she’s in a different country. But recently I’ve met a girl that’s in my own country and we connect even more then the other girl, but the other girl doesn’t know about this, and she hasn’t really stated she likes me, it’s like we are really good friends, but she asks how my day was everyday and hearts ally of my messages, and everytime before we go to bed, she tells me that she hopes I sleep well and does a little drawing saying goodnight on the Instagram messages, and since I’ve been seeing this new girl, it’s not like I’m mean, but I feel annoyed in a way because I want to only talk like this with the new girl, and I do, but when I have to talk like that to the girl to the different country I feel bad, and idk what to say cause since she hasn’t really stated what we are, so how can I tell her how we talk makes me feel uncomfortable now since I met someone new, cause imagine she says “we are just friends though, what are you talking about, we don’t talk like we are dating”, and I don’t wan to cut her off cause she’ll be confused and it’ll make her sad.

Posted Jan 8, 2026, 11:56 PM UTC

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