Males shouldn’t go on dating apps.
Okay guys, this is just an experiment I made. I tried going on dating apps as both gender and asking ChatGPT to turn my pic into a girl.
I tried to see the difference between how much attention a guy gets vs a woman. And it’s honestly the reason why SOME (I highlighted some) women are on their high horse.
When I went on bumble as a female I got 500+ matches within 5 hours.
And bumble as a male like 3-5, within 5 hours.
Looks are not the case for us guys. The reason is very simple. All look like shit or somewhat average. Don’t become another number simp for them.
I’m not telling you to be an incel and hate on women or wtv. I think as a man. The best you can do is to improve yourself and love yourself whole heartedly.
I recently had this one epiphany I wanted to share. Meeting you future partner and living your life isn’t 2 seperate things. You can only meet her after going on with your life journey. It’s because she is part of it. Either you meet through friends or family.
It will happen. We as guys don’t support each other enough. Which is the only reason why male loneliness epidemic exists. You don’t need women. You gotta be okay to open up to your brothers and You’re not any less of a man.
It takes courage and strength to open up when you’re vulnerable to arrow attacks.
My advice is to also just go other SEA countries and meet someone else. In Singapore there’s low demand but high supply.
My fellow dudes I wish you luck in your endeavours.
Posted Jan 8, 2026, 11:56 PM UTC