[F4M/GM] Intellectual Humiliation and Knowledge BDSM

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There is not something more submissive than thinking the way someone tells you to, or something more humiliating than becoming knowledgeable in something degrading.

I am seeking partners who are interested in writing stories that are based on learning or intelligence changes that are simulated at a higher level with my own knowledge. It is very exciting for my character to use my own knowledge, and for me (behind my character) to learn or be taught the same things.

Fundamentally speaking, I would enjoy simply being beaten in chess repeatedly, losing a trivia competition, or being tortuously taught a math concept.

I would especially enjoy it if the topic or conflict was subtly humiliating, and potentially related to a negative feminine stereotype or tone misogynistic.

Some examples might better illustrate the concept:

Bethany had been excited to start her Civil Engineering Major, but a combination of peer pressure and coincidence meant that she found herself in the middle of the sorority pledge process. Still, she hadn’t expected it to be this bad. Bethany found herself in her underwear with her hands cuffed to a shelf above her. Two sorority sisters stood across from her. “Kristen Ann. Birthday. Cup size. Body count.” The first sister asked. Bethany started to sputter. “December 5th! 2001! Uh- Ah- 32C! And- 17! No! 18! Uh- Ah-” The second sister gave an apologetic smile and stepped forwards with a can of spray tanner. Bethany screamed.

Emma was going to law school until she found out she was pregnant with her hometown star football player. Now, she was standing barefoot in his mother’s grimy kitchen learning how to make casserole. His mother, Brandi, who could honestly be described as a bimbo, rambled on about an overly complicated way to calculate the right amount of milk, and how to properly time a meal for a football game halftime. She half-joked to Emma that she wouldn’t let her son marry her until she was taking good care of him. Emma looked down at her still mostly-flat stomach. She had a lot to learn in eight months.

Jessica hadn’t really meant to have a rich husband, but she wasn’t going to exactly complain. The only problem was her new “friends.” All the wives of her husband’s acquaintances were nothing short of annoying trophy wives. Jessica was obligated to hang out with them, but all they ever wanted were mimosas and all they ever talked about was who got what surgery or who divorced who on some trashy reality show. Jessica never knew how to answer when they quizzed her on them. One day, her husband gave it to her straight: “Jess, Babe. I heard some of the girls say you are a bit rude. I don’t know how to put this, but I need you to stop hurting my relationships.” Jessica didn’t know what to say, but that night, she turned on LuxeLifeTV for the first time.

Brittney had enjoyed a few drinks at the work conference, sure, but she had been driving for at least four hours by now. Besides: the accident wasn’t even her fault. The only problem, though, was that the other driver was the local mayor’s son. The case was a blur. Too traumatic for Brittney to remember. All she knew was that she had been sentenced to five years. Fortunately, a trial rehabilitation program could cut that down to two on the condition that she completed a work study with a local business. That is how she found herself inside of a bug infested CHINESE MASSAGE business. She paused over her customer, and paused to formulate the words in the language she was involuntarily learning. “Xīshǔn?” “Xīshǔn?” She asked. Brittney made a crude emote with her hand and mouth. “Five. Dollars.” “Wǔ. Wǔ dollar.” Brittney wondered if this was how it felt to be colonized.

Hopefully you can understand the general gist I am going for her. At a fundamental level, I am looking for someone to do something like make me learn math while teasing me or have me watch porn or trash TV and then quiz me on it. At a higher level, I would enjoy potentially applying some narrative writing (like my examples) or potentially light game mechanics or dice rolling.

Thank you! Please reach out if anything seems interesting.

Posted Jan 8, 2026, 11:59 PM UTC

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