Wife has been pushing the idea of moving to G.R. From ATX. Thoughts?

My wife has been really interested in us move up to Grand Rapids. We’re currently in Austin. Looking to get away from the heat and the “blue dot/red state” kinda thing. Not super leftie, just normal weirdos. Got a 6 year old.

What’s the worst/best parts of Grand Rapids and would you recommend someone upend their entire life to move there?

We have only a few familial connections in Detroit and about 45 mins outside of GR, but that’s it.

How is it making friends as an adult there? I know generally it’s hard to make friends at 40+ but some places are better than others.

What do you think? Worst idea ever? Are we going to ruin the vibe like Cali folks have to Austin?

Give it to me.

Thanks.