how do you actually tell if you facepass

i have a kind of short face but not that bad by pooner standards. once my mother told me i have "very feminine facial features" to dissuade me from transitioning and it's been fucking with my head ever since.
every meme ai app/reverse search like yandex that i put my face into rates it male most of the time (even my gigafucked side profile). i semipass irl but there's too many factors (no top surgery, longer hair) that could also be affecting it. i don't want to post on a passing subreddit because i'm paranoid.

should i just stop worrying about this shit because it's fembrained?