Hey everyone,

First of all... I’m not a professional musician (The song will show you that! I wrote the lyrics, the wonders of modern technology brought it to life!). — Above all, I’m a dad. A dad who’s spent the last few years in and out of courtrooms, mediation rooms, and sleepless nights trying to stay a part of his children’s lives.

Three years ago, I got divorced from my ex-wife (her spur of the moment choice). We agreed to share care of our two kids equally — but somewhere along the way, she changed her mind and the system stopped listening. What started as a promise of fairness turned into a fight for recognition. I’ve paid my share, shown up for every school run on my days, every bedtime story on my nights, every parent meeting & doctors appointment — but still found myself being treated like a visitor in my own children’s world.

Every father who’s been through it knows what I mean! The loneliness when your kids aren’t home and the pressure to stay strong when you’re breaking inside. Out of that pain, I wrote the lyrics for "*Not Weak"* for the ones who show up without fail, strive for the best, pay their way, fight fair, and still get painted as the problem.

The chorus is my truth and I am sure many of you can relate!

>*“I’m not weak because I’m hurting,*

>*I’m not wrong because I’m loud…”*

If you’re a dad in the middle of it — dealing with courts, child maintenance, or just the ache of missing your kids — this song is for you.

You’re not alone. You’re not failing. You’re fighting for something sacred.

Peace to you all!

I wrote a song for every dad fighting to stay in their kids’ lives. It’s called “Not Weak.”