How can you find a domme for someone just getting into the community

I’m a 22 year old male sub by ATL, I’ve tried to find someone but haven’t had any luck. I feel gatekept out of the dating scene cause I can’t find anyone at all. Any community I join to look deleted my posts cause I have little Reddit clout (karma as you call it) and anyone who does contact me is fishing either for money or just aren’t who they say to be. Dying to find the woman of my dreams.