Wife and I will be taking ecstasy tomorrow night for a wild and sex filled night. Advice on toys and setting?

Wife and I are planning to have a sex field night tommoroq with ecstasy. Need some advice on if we should stay home and just enjoy the vibe with lights and massage oil and some sex toys. The other option is also to get a hotel room right by a popular club, which is going to have a Dj preforming named krewella which seems like a rave like setting and seems perfect. We have both taken it before, but when she did, it didn’t really hit her so much so she didn’t really get the experience so it will actually be her first full experience on it. Which is why I’m contemplating if we should try the club out with the hotel room next to it and maybe enjoy the club first while we were initially rolling and if it is too overwhelming for her, then we can just go up to the hotel. Or should I avoid the club and hotel and just have us take it at home? I feel that we would love the club setting with sex after in the hotel room but at the same time I also don’t want it to be too overwhelming for her. But then again, I also feel that there is a chance that if we stay home then once we fill it, we are gonna regret not having gone to the club and dancing.

Also, are dildos recommended for her while rolling?