30 [M4F] #Midwest/#online - Tall, Athletic, deep voiced Dom. Looking for a longterm connection.

Hello,

I want to be transparent from the start: I’m seeking a long-term dynamic. I’m not interested in quick gratification, trading nudes, or anything casual. I’m looking for a submissive who is genuinely interested in a committed, long-term relationship and who desires to explore a submissive lifestyle with structure, intention, and trust.

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About Me

I’m a 6’3”, 30-year-old white male with an athletic build—short brown hair, blue eyes, big hands, and a deep voice. My personality is reserved but not shy. I enjoy the occasional adventure and love to travel.

I’m calm, collected, and naturally fall into the role of protector and mentor. Having spent a significant portion of my life in the military, I strongly value discipline and routine, both of which heavily influence my personal life and my Dom style. That discipline has led me to be financially successful, stably employed, and a homeowner in the countryside.

Hobbies & Interests • Music (Johnny Cash is my favorite) • Reading (currently focused on world history) • Firearms (primarily competitive shooting) • Cooking (I make an excellent salmon) • Small item repair (watches and similar work) • Swimming (snorkeling and free diving)

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About My Dom Style

“Strict but fair” best describes me. I’m not sadistic, but I do believe in accountability—rule breaking or negative behavior will be addressed appropriately.

I aim to create an environment where my submissive can remain in subspace, feel secure, and focus on growth and training. My goal is to foster enough trust and comfort that you can truly turn your brain off and fully explore your submissive nature.

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What I’m Looking For

I am selective, though exceptions are always possible. Ideally, you are: • Willing to be submissive both domestically and sexually • Interested in control and structure beyond the bedroom • Single and child-free • Open to relocating at some point (not immediately) • An effective communicator (I don’t play mind games) • Committed to a long-term relationship • Comfortable expressing limits and boundaries

Both new and experienced submissives are welcome.

If you’re new to submission, don’t feel discouraged. I’m happy to move at a pace that feels safe and comfortable for you.

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Kinks

Gags, long-term bondage, collars, tasks, free use, spankings, butt plugs, blindfolds, breeding, pet play, outfits/uniforms, slapping, marks/ownership, and more.

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If this post piqued your interest, please send a message including: • Your ASL • Kinks and limits • A SFW photo (if you’re comfortable—mutual attraction matters to me, and I will send one in return)

Also, include the name of your favorite band somewhere in your first message.