Struggling to find realistic hair wigs for men for cosplay

Hey all, I’m working on a male cosplay that needs a realistic, everyday hairstyle, and I’m having trouble finding the right wig. I’m not looking for anything super spiky or exaggeratedm more of a modern, natural look that wouldn’t immediately scream “this is a wig,” especially around the hairline. Most of the hair wigs for men I’ve found feel either way too thick, overly shiny, or meant for heavy styling. I don’t mind doing a little trimming or light styling, but I’d like to start with something that already looks fairly natural. Comfort is also a big deal since I’ll be wearing it for several hours at a con. For anyone who’s done realistic or semi-realistic male cosplays:

• Are there brands that work better for natural short styles?
• Is a lace front basically a must for this kind of look?
• Any tips for making shorter wigs sit naturally and not look helmet-y?

I’ve checked out a bunch of cosplay wig stores and even looked at broader marketplaces, including Alibaba, but it’s hard to know what actually works until you’ve tried it in person. If you’ve used hair wigs for men for realistic characters, I’d love to hear what worked for you, what didn’t, and any brand or style tips you’d recommend. worn hair wigs for men regularly, I’d really appreciate hearing what worked for you, what didn’t, and anything you wish you’d known before buying.