AIO my bf is way too rough

Today, my boyfriend and I went to an indoor adventure park. We were having fun running across all the obstacles, and we got to the one where you “battle” someone else on a beam using two padded jousting sticks attached in the middle.

As we both approached the center, we grabbed the sticks, and I noticed they were tangled. I leaned forward to untangle them, and he immediately drove into me with the padded stick, pushing me straight back on the beam. I landed hard on my tailbone. It took me out instantly. I was in so much pain, and I still am hours later.

If you’re play fighting with your lady, wouldn’t you take it down a notch and hit side to side playfully instead of driving straight forward? We play fight all the time, and I love to wrestle. But every time I wrestle with my boyfriend, he goes straight for the kill and submission right off the bat. Like, damn.. I get that you’re bigger and stronger than me, but subdue me gently.

I’ll be rolling around with him, trying to get on top or pin his arms, and he immediately goes to constricting my ribs and chest so I can’t breathe. It’s kind of odd. When I told him I really hurt my tailbone because he drove into me while I wasn’t even ready, he told me I was soft, lol.

We joke around often, so that didn’t really bother me, but I just don’t think he understands his strength compared to a girl who’s obviously not built the same. Kind of getting majorly turned off and it seems like a red flag. Am I overreacting, or is he taking it too far?