29 [M4M] #London. Looking for a male role model.

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Hey

I’m a 29yo guy in London. To cut to the chase: i’ve never really had a male role model in my life.

I’m a professional guy with a good job in the city. I’m sociable and have a good group of friends. I’m in a happy relationship (straight) and honestly, I think i’ve done well for myself.

But I do feel like i’m missing a guy in my life I can look up to as a role model. Someone I can turn to for advice. An experienced guy to chat about life with.

Physically i’m tall (6ft2) with an athletic/average body (I run and gym but also like to have a few pints on a weekend), clean shaven and brown hair.

My ideal outcome would be to find a big bro or dad in London to get to know and chat with long-term. We’d start chatting online but I am looking for an in real life connection. I have no real expectations, but it would be great if i could connect with someone with a similar job, similar home life (gf or wife?) and similar interests to me.

If this post caught your eye, send me a message with a bit of an intro and we can see if we click. 🤙🤙🤙

Posted Jan 11, 2026, 8:06 PM UTC

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