Are you happy after divorce or wish you would put more time in.

’m 45M and I’m sorry this ? Is Very broad. But I’ve been contemplating divorce and coming to realization that I will let her stay in the home with the kids (10,11) because it will be more beneficial for the kids to not be uprooted. Financially speaking I will be fine cause I’ll have to in the short term live with my mom who is alone and could use some help (disabled).

Has anyone been on the fence for Divorce and either was happy with their decision or regretted it?

I left in March last year cause I was fed up and came back 2 weeks later cause the child guilt was killing me. She was not making it easy and I think encouraging the kids to give me a hard time. I realize now that coming back was not the right move.