How to find a partner who’s my type

I’m rlly wondering how while m deactivating social media nd i don’t accept ppl on Facebook either I don’t go out a lot I don’t talk to strangers I’m not socially active in uni how is it possible to find someone who’s physically acceptable takes care of himself well educated and cultured open to try new things and to different opinions and perspectives smart . If u have a bf like that tell me how u found him ? Should I just download dating apps