27 [F4A] #Blåbyen/Norway - goth switch interested in longterm partner
Just a cute weirdo looking for a lovely time with a guy or girl. I am a switch. This is a post for either a dom or sub. I'm not much into other switches. I prefer partners who are wholly one dynamic.
Please just be clean, open-minded, at least somewhat fit, and most of all... please live near me. I'm not entertaining any messages that are from elsewhere. I'm not into online play or chats. I'm looking to create a longterm irl sub/dom dynamic, so distance is key. This is my stress reliever 😄 so let's not waste time if you're not local. I've encountered too many fakes claiming to be visiting soon. I'm looking to meet up about once a week. My weekends are open. My home is open to play in or I can come to you.
I'm 27, 171cm, work out everyday (but got those thick thighs), vaguely punkish/still clinging to my goth years, dyed black hair/pale, and into the sub/dom 24/7 lifestyle. I can play either role. I'm into the usual things - rope bondage, praising/begging, gags/clamps, orgasm control, but have a few other kinks I'd like to try if you're on the sub side of things. And if you're a dom then I'm ready to bounce ideas off each other. If you're looking to call me Goth Mommy, this is a hard no. I'll be your domme, not your mommy. Honestly, just keep the titles (mistress, madam, lady - whatever) to yourself until we enter a proper dynamic. I'm not your mistress while we talk logistics. We're just two people chatting. There will plenty of time for honorifics later.
As a domme, I don't typically go for humiliation or degrading play, if that's your thing. I prefer to lift my subs up... by sitting on their faces. I have more of a soft/educating touch. So if you're looking for a sadist, you'll have to keep on your search.
Older is okay! Younger is less okay, but I'm down to try if you're at least in your 20's and carry yourself maturely.
I have pics (SFW/NSFW) and am good to verify myself! Please be ready to do the same.
Hopefully I'll hear from you! I'm generally pretty bad at selling myself and making bios, so if you check the boxes above, message me! It's just easier to get to know me.
Posted Jan 11, 2026, 8:07 PM UTC · locked