19 F4M I want you to decide how I tease myself tonight

I really enjoy the idea of giving someone control. Not just watching, but deciding how I tease myself and how slow or intense it gets.

I like detailed instructions, patience, and someone who enjoys imagining they’re guiding me step by step. The build-up matters more to me than rushing anything.

If you enjoy taking control, setting the pace, and telling me what you’d do first, I’d like to hear your thoughts.

Comment with what you’d start with. If we connect, I’m open to sharing more.