I’m (F32) sick of my DB and the lack of touch / intimacy.

I have been in a relationship with my partner (M32) for 14 years. We barely have sex. He doesn’t give me any affection or attention- unless I initiate but I’m fed up of being the one to do it. If I don’t initiate it, we don’t have sex. When we do have sex, there’s no foreplay or intimacy - he doesn’t even think to hold my hand in public. If I hold his hand, he’ll hold mine but I want him to do it first once in a while.

He loves me, I love him but I don’t feel loved and I’m sick of the lack of physical touch and affection. There’s no excitement and no spark. It’s got to the point where I don’t find him attractive anymore and there’s a part of me that just wants to leave or have an affair. He meets all of my needs apart from this. Our relationship is healthy, it’s just not fulfilling.

I’m just frustrated I guess.

I’ve just made this account as he knows my regular account.