The violent wheel vibration is driving me crazy. It sounds like gunshots and my pops is gonna kick me out if it persists. Can someone help?

I did everything I could to make it stop and no matter what I do, if someone online hits me, or if I go off the road, my wheel makes violent banging noises

I need my wheel to be tight around turns. and I don't want it to feel like i'm driving on snow. but I need my wheel to not be loud when someone hits me

How do i make it so my wheel is tight around turns and doesn't vibrate violently???