Help with a honey jar?

Hi guys. I have been in an on and off again relationship for about 3 1/2 years. We broke up a year ago, but we are very much in love. My partner suffers from mental illness, and it really hinders our relationship and causes him a lot of shame and inability to make repair which leads to avoidance and silence on his end. I would love to do a honey jar that also has some sort of component of healing and peace for him. This person and I love each other very much, but his bipolar disorder and trauma disorder overwhelms our relationship and leads to unhealthy silences and rollercoaster behavior. I’m looking for stability, consistent effort, and love that is shown in action.

I’ve never done one of these spells before, but I’ve done a lot of manifesting that typically works in my favor as I think I have the propensity and energy that this sort of stuff works for me. I’ve always been intuitive. Would love any tips or advice even any love in this situation. My heart is a bit raw.