Help me understand reflections of beliefs and what would be an example of feminine energy in regards to Iran, Ukraine and Greenland?

If reality was truly a reflection of my beliefs, thoughts and actions - then I would be in a reality where right now Russia, US and China would get along and not be competing for Greenland.
I would also be in a reality where the Iranian government would immediately recognize the people's choice and step down instead of shooting its protestors and holding on to power.
I would in no way be in a reality where Russia invades Ukraine.

But because of physical reality and it's rules such as scarcity, the need for resources, food, land, a single president party etc it feels like these conflicts are destined and forced to happen, that there is no other way, that only masculine energy will solve it.

I am living my best life but what i am seeing on the outside doesn't really make any sense based on what I believe.
Now Bashar says we need feminine energy to achieve open contact but feminine energy like diplomacy, exchange, peace etc is not what stopped Saddam, Venezuela and Iran it's direct masculine energy action and forceful intervention that did.

So if there is no room for feminine energy in physical reality at least when push comes to shove - like if Tarrifs, peace talks don't really show to be working and just harm everyone else instead of the target problem and we have to resort to brutal methods in the end anyway.

So then what's the point in Bashar telling us to go feminine energy because everything around is says otherwise?
Help me see the light people's!