Queans do you prefer your partner to do the looking for potential cakes or do you enjoy it as well?

Was watching tiktoks with my wife and she commented on a person's lips and how they would probably feel amazing on my dick. I told her I should put her on the "hunt" for cakes since most of what makes her into this is her being attracted to the other woman. Do any other queans like being the one to do the swiping on apps etc? There's something hot about her picking the cake.